trauma therapy for birth trauma

Welcome to Who Holds The Mamas, a practice dedicated to offering specialised therapy for birth related trauma.

If you are struggling after a traumatic birth, or finding it hard to move past what happened, please know that you are not alone.

The impact of birth trauma can often be underestimated or overlooked, and can come with an expectation of just being able to simply move on. But for many this is not the case.

What you are feeling makes sense, and it’s okay to need support.

Every mama deserves the chance to heal.

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WHO HOLDS THE MAMAS?

I’m Samantha, a trauma practitioner specialising in helping women to process birth trauma, a profoundly important but often overlooked area of care.

After my own traumatic birth I realised just how many women go through this, and how little dedicated trauma processing therapy there is for birth trauma, often leaving mums to try and cope with their experiences alone.

I created Who Holds The Mamas as a practice dedicated to offering women specialised trauma processing therapy after difficult birth experiences.

Birth trauma often requires more than just traditional talk therapy alone. I am trained in trauma-informed therapy and trauma processing techniques, which are crucial in the support of any traumatic experience.

This is a space grounded in genuine understanding and real healing. What happened to you matters, and you don’t need to deal with it alone.

There is nothing wrong with you, Something happened to you

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i work with women navigating:

  • Traumatic, emergency, or medically complex births

  • Loss of control or distress during labour

  • Births that felt disempowering, frightening, or that violated consent

  • Caesarean or instrumental deliveries

  • NICU stays or other intensive medical interventions

  • Injury or harm due to clinical negligence

  • Postnatal anxiety, dissociation, or emotional overwhelm

  • PTSD and cPTSD

  • Previous trauma that was reactivated by the birth or postpartum experience

Birth trauma isn’t always obvious, visible or acknowledged, and it is not only about what happened during the delivery process.

It is also about how you experienced the event, how your body reacted to it, and how your nervous system continues to carry it.

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SKILLFUL AND compassionate Therapy

The effects of trauma can present in so many ways.

It can feel like anxiety, panic, hypervigilance, emotional numbness, guilt, shame, anger, overwhelm, difficulty in connecting with your loved ones, an inability to move past the events. These are all natural and treatable responses of an overwhelmed nervous system doing its best to protect you.

You are not alone, and you are not broken. What happened to you matters and so does how you feel now.

You don’t need to have the ‘worst’ story for your experience to be valid. If it felt traumatic to you, that is enough.

Trauma processing therapy allows the brain to begin to store painful events as more neutral past memories, and the nervous system to return to a more regulated state.

I blend targeted trauma processing techniques and integration therapies to help your mind and body to safely move beyond what happened.

This is trauma therapy that understands how trauma affects the body and mind, and why you were impacted the way you were.

This is therapy that meets you exactly where you are, is grounded in compassion, attuned to your pace and centred around your lived experience.

  • Testimonial

    'I cannot thank, nor recommend , this lady enough. If her work has found you please do not hesitate, for it is something all women should experience.’

    - CC

  • Testimonial

    'Samantha manages to create such a safe space and has a gift for lovingly listening whilst pulling on threads that I find myself surprised at what comes up and always relieved and uplifted when I walk away. She has so many tools and techniques and delivers them so carefully and skilfully you can't help but feel better than when you turned up. Thank you for sharing your gift with the world during these uncertain times, I can’t imagine not ever having your sessions to help me navigate it.'

    - VN

  • Testimonial

    ‘It’s a powerful thing to feel held when you feel lost. The techniques Samantha uses to really process the trauma and then to be able to hold what comes up are another level. I would say to any mama to please go and be held by her.’

    -SR

  • Testimonial

    ‘Samantha has created both a powerful and beautiful safe space for women, her work is truly inspirational. I felt fully supported and held during my sessions whilst processing some very deep and painful traumas. She ensured I felt seen and heard, meeting me exactly where I was session by session, working at a pace that was right for me.  Samantha expertly weaves her extensive knowledge and her ability to connect with you fully in a way that leads you to find a place of peace once again.'

    - CC

  • Testimonial

    ‘This sort of therapy should be offered to every woman’

    -JJN

  • Testimonial

    ‘I had no idea what trauma processing actually was but now I can’t even begin to imagine how I would have gotten past my horrific birth experience without it. I was at the lowest point of my life and feel like I’ve been brought back from the brink. My whole life has lifted up. This woman is magic’

    -SJ

  • Testimonial

    ‘Having someone genuinely understand what you’ve been through and care for you is a beautiful thing - thank you for caring about the mamas xx’

    -JL

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a Safe Place to begin

In our work together, you are the expert on your experience, and I will support you in navigating it.

Healing doesn’t mean erasing what happened. It means no longer having to be defined or limited by it.

What happened to you matters.

You deserve support.